
Hope In Adversity 
David was born without an immune system.
He lived in a kind of a plastic bubble in
order to prevent exposure to common germs
and viruses that would kill him immediately.
He lived without ever experiencing human
contact. When he was twelve he underwent
a bone marrow transplant to correct this
deficiency. When asked what he'd like to
do when released from his protective bubble,
he replied, "I want to walk barefoot
on grass, and touch my mother's hand."
We take so many things for granted. We are
surrounded with beauty and yet many times
we fail to see it. Instead of being grateful,
we complain.
Glenn Mangurian had every reason to complain.
A respected business leader with a 35-year
track record in management consulting, he
suffered an injury to his spinal cord that
left him paralyzed from the waist down.
Immobilized in bed for many years he learnt
five basic principles. They can shape a whole
life. These values are so obvious that we
fail to see them! One, you can't know what
will happen tomorrow, and it is better that
way. Two, you can't control what happens,
just how you respond. Three, loss amplifies
the value of what remains. Four, it's easier
to create new dreams than to cling to broken
ones. Five, your happiness is more important
than righting injustices.
Adversity can turn out to be a space where
we acquire wisdom. I came across a Catechism
written by Saint John Mary Vianney or as
he is better known, the Cure d'Ars. This
saint, who was almost refused admittance
to the seminary because of his lack of intelligence,
carried within him a wisdom in things of
God that surpassed many theologians.
When he speaks of adversities, he is so full
of common sense. "Whether we will or
not, we must suffer. There are some who suffer
like the good thief and others like the bad
thief. They both suffered equally. But one
knew how to make his sufferings meritorious,
he accepted them in the spirit of reparation,
and turning towards Jesus crucified, he received
from His mouth these beautiful words: "Today
you shall be with Me in Paradise." The
other, on the contrary, cried out, uttered
imprecations and blasphemies, and expired
in the most frightful despair."
There is always the choice to succumb or
overcome to circumstances.
The saint exemplifies his message with a
powerful true-life illustration. "In
a neighboring parish, there was a little
boy in bed, covered with sores, very ill,
and very miserable. I said to him, "My
poor little child, you are suffering very
much!" He answered me, "No, sir,
today I do not feel the pain I had yesterday,
and tomorrow I shall not suffer from the
pain I have now." "You would like
to get well?" "Not really. I was
badly behaved before I was ill, and I might
be so again. I am very well as I am. "
"We do not understand this, because
we are too earthly," he concludes.
Pope Benedict XVI starts his Encyclical,
In Hope We Were Saved, with the stirring
story of an African woman. This is his way
of highlighting his message that the encounter
with God does make a difference because it
generates hope. The Gospel is not only "informative"
but "performative", "that
means: the Gospel is not merely a communication
of things that can be known; it is one that
makes things happen and is life-changing."
Josephine Bakhita was born around 1869 in
Darfur, Sudan. At the age of nine, she was
kidnapped by slave-traders, beaten till she
bled, and sold five times in the slave-markets
of Sudan. At one stage, she was flogged every
day - as a result of this, she bore 144 scars
in her body!
When she was fourteen, she was bought by
a merchant for an Italian consul Callisto
Legnani and they transferred themselves to
Italy. Now she came to know a totally different
kind of 'paron', 'master' as he is known
in Venetian dialect.
She discovered that this 'paron', the living
God of Jesus Christ, is good, goodness in
person. She was amazed to know that this
Lord even knew her, that he had created her-that
he actually loved her! He himself was flogged!
What is more, this master was waiting for
her 'at the Father's right hand'.
"I am definitively loved and whatever
happens to me - I am awaited by this Love.
And so my life is good." Hope is beautiful.
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